It's tough to be in a relationship when you can't give the other person what they want. I can respect when the other person needs to deal with his/her issues. Men need to have things together so they can provide for the women that they are with where as women feel they sometimes don't need a man to help them out.
I truly feel for myself that since my divorce my life has crumbled and it's hard for me to get back to where I was before I was married. It's even harder when a child is involved but to me a man needs to do what he has to do and when your in a relationship with another person it's kind of hard for that person to understand what you are going thru it makes things harder.
Some of us are set in our ways and it's hard to break them especially when we get older. To me relationship are hard when your older instead of when your young because at a young age your at the stage of finding your self or you may not be looking for a relationship.
I hope that I can be in a situation where I can give someone my all and just me being me because at this point it's tough but it's even tougher when you have a child in the picture but as I say when a child comes into the picture it changes everything and you have to shift the things you do for that child and yourself as a person becomes secondary but in they end again a man has to do what he has to do...it may hurt the person you're seeing but if she understands then the best days can and will happen
